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Having toenails cut can be a distressing experience for children and stressful task for the person doing the cutting. Here’s a few tips to help the process become more pleasant for everyone!
Cutting Children’s Toenails
How should I cut my child’s toenails?
Carefully… is the short, simple answer!
Some children do not like having their toenails cut so here are some simple tips to help make the process less distressing and stressful:
- Have the right tool for the job. Scissors are not appropriate. Always use toenail nippers
- Cut the nail a little piece at a time
- Usually cut the nail straight across
- File afterwards to avoid rough edges.
Explain to the child what is going to be done and how
If your child fidgets or is distressed, remember to explain what needs to be done in language appropriate to the age of the child.
For instance, you cannot explain how dangerous it is to fidget and move around when your toenails are being cut to a toddler. However you can explain to five-year-olds that if they continue to move, they may lose a toe!
Obviously, this isn’t going to happen, but you can then turn the cutting of toenails into a game –
Let’s count your toes to make sure you still have five on each foot. Which is the longest toe…we’ll do that one next. Now we’ll do the smallest toe- which is it? You choose which one we do next.
Rewarding ‘good’ behaviour
Remember to give praise to the child for being ‘helpful’;’grown-up’; ‘well behaved’ (or whatever terms you prefer), whilst having his/her toenails cut.
You might even offer a little incentive – this does not have to be big or obvious. Things you might say to your child include:
As soon as this is finished we can go to the park, play in the garden, have a game of…what shall we play today? Shall we read a book or make cakes/jelly for tea.
Rewards for children do not have to be expensive!
Also, if your child does not behave appropriately when having his/her toenails cut, do not give the reward. Instead I suggest you say something like:
It’s a shame that little job has taken so long, because now we don’t have time to go to the park, make cakes/ jelly
At this point your child may decide to cry. Depending on his/her behaviour, you may decide to re-instate the ‘reward’ if they do a little job for you. You could say something like:
If you help me tidy up, we may have time for a quick play session at the park later. It won’t be as long as I would have liked, but let’s see what we can do.
Most children respond positively to bribery, blackmail and corruption!
If you are unsure how to cut your child’s toenails or what equipment to use, you could make an appointment to see a Chiropodist/ Podiatrist.
Or if you’re in Leicestershire and would like an appointment with me, don’t hesitate to contact me!
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